Coaching
For a long time, I struggled with masculinity. I did not recognize myself in the image of the man that was imposed on me by society. Which led me to believe I could never be a ‘real’ man. Through an intense personal proces of several years, I discovered I have the freedom to shape my own masculinity.
That did not happen over night. It took a lot of work. But the result is worth it. After completing the healing proces, I began to delve into guiding others. Through educations in coaching, NLP and Systemic Work, I built the skills necessary to provide support for other men on their path to constructive and healthy masculinity.
I have become the masculinity coach I needed myself ten years ago. The circle is round.
Masculinity
As a coach, I support men* in creating a form of masculinity in which they feel at home. A masculinity that is good for you and for the world around you. I wish for you a masculinity that is more human. So you can take your place in today’s society.
The course of my own life, combined with my expertise, I has allowed me to specialize in the following themes:
– Connecting body and mind
– Emotion regulation
– Grief
– Systemic Work
– Transformational processes
*men are the main participants of my coaching trajectories, simply because I believe I can make the biggest difference with and for them. When I say ‘men’, I mean all men: cisgender and transgender, straight and queer, and all colors.
How it works
During individual sessions, we will tackle your challenges together. Every coaching trajectory is carefully constructed based on the needs of my client. Therefore, no one trajectory is the same. The sequence of sessions is unique, both in terms of content (the specific intervention techniques) as well as shape (the number of sessions). I will support you in various areas of your life to help you make the changes you are looking for.
Prospective clients and I engage in a ‘Coaching Call’. This is a conversation of twenty minutes, specifically designed for us to get to know each other. You can ask questions on my approach as a coach, while I can ask questions about you. Just to see if there is a potential match. What is more: you will leave the Coaching Call with a takeaway that you can apply immediately to spark the first change. Free of charge.
When there is a match, we can get started on your coaching sessions.
Using a model specifically designed for takeoff, we will dive even deeper into your coach question. Simultaneously activating your system and preparing it for change. Based on the results of this session, I will construct a coaching plan, which will serve as compass for the remainder of the sessions. This plan includes your coaching question, specific intervention techniques, expected number of sessions and estimated budget.
During each of the following sessions we will tackle different aspects of your transformation. You are in full control of your journey. Should your needs change along the way, we will take a different route. And when you feel like you want to stop, we will stop. Simplicity is key. Remember: I am here to support you.
After your final session, you will be ready to take the next steps in your life. As a fully transformed human being.
All sessions are one-on-one, all sessions are digital or on location and all sessions are made to measure. My going rate is €100* per person per hour for individuals and €150* per person per hour for employers.
*Excluding VAT, traveling costs and venue (if applicable)
